3 Parenting Fears And How To Get Over Them
- February 19, 2018
- Brenda Fisher
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All parents have their worries and fears when it comes to their children. After all, whether you have one child or many, parenting is still a daunting and potentially frightening prospect once morning sickness and the lead up to the birth are an ever distant memory. Many parents have the same fears, and they are perfectly normal, so don’t feel bad for being concerned. However, what’s even better than knowing you’re not alone is knowing that there are ways to get over these fears and enjoy being a parent a little bit more.
Missing Out On Opportunities
Something that a lot of parents worry about is that their children will miss out on the opportunities they need to grab hold of to succeed. Whether that’s the chance of a good education, or trying out different after-school activities, or getting to visit lots of different countries, parents are afraid that it means their little ones won’t be able to do or be what they want to do or be. It’s why parents buy so many educational toys, and why so many parents (and kids) feel overwhelmed with the amount of extra-curricular activities they’re signed up for. What’s the answer? Studies show that less is more in many cases. So buy education toys, but don’t buy everything that you see; fewer toys mean that your child can focus and develop better. Fewer classes mean they can have more time to practice and get better at the ones they are doing.
Being Unable To Keep Them Safe
Being unable to protect your child from harm is a primal thing. It’s an awful thing to think that your child could be hurt by a stranger, or in some random attack. That fear is intensified because if there is an incident then the media reports on them in detail. The thing to remember is that these incidents are extremely rare, even if it doesn’t seem that way when looking at the news. The best thing a parent can do to keep their children safe is to do what they normally do – they need to stay as tuned in to their child as possible, making sure that they will be happy to let you know if anything happens that they aren’t happy with. It’s also important to teach your child about different kinds of abuse (when they are old enough to understand, of course) so that they are aware of what is right, and what is wrong.
That They Will Get Hurt
Accidents and injuries are a big part of a parents’ list of things worries. It’s so easy for a child to hurt themselves when they begin to learn to do things for themselves. They can choke when trying solid foods, they can fall and get a cut, bruise, or scrape when they begin to walk, and much more. There are many ways to prevent these things from happening. For example, to help a child eat solids safely, you can invest in a baby food feeder, and you can find details about the best ones at Parent Guide. Plus you can teach them about what they should or shouldn’t touch, and explain why it might cause them pain. In some instances, however, your child will need to learn by failing and potentially getting a little knock or scrape. Learning to walk is one of those times, but they will learn, and those little knocks and scrapes will stop.